
All things happy.

Need a day off
September 30, 2021
Excused absences from schools across the nation require “legitimate excuses,” and this list rarely acknowledges mental breaks. Teen mental health stigma is a pressing matter. Teens may sometimes sound more irritated or angry, have feelings of worthlessness, be extremely sensitive to others’ comments, and withdraw from social situations. If a student is making up excuses to stay home from school, it may very well be because of a battle that they’re fighting mentally. Instituting a law around this absence, like Utah and Oregon, can definitely bring these issues to light. If we can have deeper conversations around these issues and support each other, I believe that we can start seeing mental health as a valid reason to miss a day of school. Mental health can’t be considered a taboo subject anymore, and we need to talk about it. Together, we can work on making mental health, a legitimate excuse for absence in our state.

Hanging out with yourself
February 13, 2021
Loneliness. It consumes your thoughts, while leaving you with a great void inside. Constant reassurances that we’re all in this COVID-19 pandemic together, no matter the distance, can often fall short. In order to endure being alone, you must first accept the feelings of isolation that quarantining stirs. Storing away that pain builds pent-up frustration and drains your mental health. By the same token, it’s essential to learn to work through this pain with self-discovery. Taking care of yourself is as much of a priority as caring for others, thus, it can be beneficial to reserve time to do so. There are a multitude of activities that can help nurture your mental health, including sports, art, or a stroll around the neighborhood. Whatever it may be, easing your frustrated mind can aid with finding bliss in solitude. Being far away from the hustle and bustle of people is a challenge; for the time being, it’s more than okay to enjoy ourselves as company.

Simple recipes for a cup of joy
August 19, 2020
Enlivening someone’s day is among the most gratifying experiences. However, that’s easier said than done, right? Actually, there are a number of things you can do to make someone beam that twinkling smile. One easy way to brighten someone’s day is to shoot them a kind text. An unexpected, warm message popping up on their screen amidst robotic double-tapping can create a “kindness boomerang” effect. Another simple approach is to share a fun book. A quick read that makes you happy is likely to spark the same reaction in others, especially bookworms. If you literally want to follow a recipe to boost someone’s mood, avid foodies, kids, and pretty much anyone with a sweet tooth can appreciate a homemade, delectable dessert. Whether you’re “basically the next Gordon Ramsay” or ready to dust off grandma’s cookbooks, whipping up a goody shows that you care. Though these little things may seem random, they are sure to spread glee around you.
Tried any of these out? Type up a comment to share!

If you’ve got “the blues”, crank up the tunes
August 10, 2020
Waiting for any indication that COVID-19 will start to diminish can make you feel impatient, agitated, or downright bummed. Though physical health has become a global priority, it’s crucial to stay healthy emotionally as well. That’s where music comes into play. Active music listening can be used as a form of therapy, as an outlet for the release of dispirited feelings. Start with a song that matches those thoughts, and slowly shift to more peaceful, positive songs. This method has been proven to engage the neocortex of the brain, calming negative emotions down. Pushing away stress is easier said than done, but music can truly help with tuning out negativity (no pun intended).
All vibes welcome

August 8, 2020
Having a positive outlook in life has helped me through stressful times, and has taught me what it means to be an optimist. ‘Seeing the sunshine through the rain’ is a way to let in positive perspectives. However, shoving false hope into ourselves and our friends crosses the line. Toxic positivity culture masks true emotions, promoting the idea that struggles with mental health are not valid. Scrolling through social media, an underrepresentation of these struggles is already an issue. Healthy optimism is understanding that we all have those moments, and finding realistic ways to take positive actions when they occur. Let’s start showing society that it’s perfectly okay to not be okay. Let’s start saying “just be you” instead of “just be happy”. Let’s start lifting each other up, while accepting those who need some time to heal.
Dear Harini,
Nice blog. In this day and age where everything is fast paced and skin deep, mental health issue is more prevalent, but hidden and easily pushed under the rug.
Even though you are just a teen, you’ve taken a mature topic to blog about. it shows that compassion and empathy doesn’t have age limitation.
Keep up the good job. Very proud of you!
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Thank you so much for your kind comment! I completely agree that struggles with mental health are often considered “abnormal” in communities, and that’s why I wanted to make sure that those feelings are validated. Thanks again 🙂
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Your writing is so good, it really draws the reader in! I love how you said that “it’s okay to not be okay’. It seems like in society, everybody tries to be perfect and act like they’re always happy, so it’s refreshing to hear that everybody goes through their own problems!
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Thanks a bunch, I’m glad my point got across in the right way!
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Dear Harini,
You are just amazing!!
I am very happy to read your blog …. You are such a profound thinker / writer ….at this young age… it’s ultimate happiness just being ourselves…as you have thoughtfully said ” just be you” … Happy blogging!!
All the very best.
Lots of love…
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Wow this made my day! Thank you so much, it means a lot to see that my insight is appreciated!!
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Hey Harini – I love your thoughts in “Simple recipes for a cup of joy”! As a teacher I often lose site of this when focusing on the curriculum…but the idea of bringing joy and a smile is just as important – if not more! Continue the great work, and thanks for the reminder.
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Awesome, I’m so happy that the post connected with your teaching Mr. Strand! Being able to spread kindness in the education standpoint is so important 🙂
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Very cool ideas Harini, and very well written too! I had a good time reading these very interesting takes, all of which show how mature you are at such a relatively young age. Very nice job!
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Thanks so much, I’m glad my writing has sparked some interest!
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Hi Harini!
This blog is great and you have obviously put so much thought and work into it! It is amazing to see your wide range of interests outside of the science and chemistry we worked through this summer during MMSS. I love the variety in content! It would be awesome if you occasionally included some links to research articles or informative websites so readers can learn more if they want to!
Keep up the good work and keep writing!
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Dr. Albright, thank you so much for your kind comment! I appreciate your thoughts on including links to articles, that’s a fantastic idea!
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